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Questions & Suggestions

Free Your Mind’s Youth Questions & Suggestions Program is an online platform that provides an accessible, and confidential space for youth to ask questions and seek advice for their mental health related concerns. Do you have a question about mental health? Use the anonymous form below to enter your questions. A mental health professional will answer your questions one by one on video or through writing. The video or text answers will be published through Free Your Mind’s website at www.freeyourmindinitiative.com and (or) youtube channel and (or) spotify.

Your question is saved and will appear when it is answered.

  • Anonymous asked:
    Why are mental health needs so expensive?
    • FYM Communications replied:
      That's a good question! It is an issue that is globally prevalent, but that doesn't mean it's unsolvable. There are many interconnected factors, for example many mental health services may be only available via private healthcare options even in Canada where we (usually) emphasize public health care. Mental health also is literally expensive - the annual economic cost of mental illness in Canada is estimated at + $50 billion/ year, including not only health care costs, but lost productivity and quality of life declines (https://www.camh.ca/en/driving-change/the-crisis-is-real/mental-health-statistics). There are still many ways to access help if you need it, including school or university mental health providers, distress lines, and more - but we definitely need much more change to increase accessibility. Increasing mental health awareness to create these changes is our mission.
  • Anonymous asked:
    How can Calgary teens get involved with your organization. Please reply to c.jhaney@outlook.com
  • Anonymous asked:
    What is the best way to deal with long term stress? I find that stress is something that mounts up overtime rather than gets solved.
  • Anonymous asked:
    How can I prevent pressure/responsibilities to pile up so much inside until I explode either with anger or extreme sadness.
  • Anonymous asked:
    How do I keep myself from overthinking about the future?
  • Anonymous asked:
    I have this friend who tends to rant to me a lot about her issues. But it's reached a point where it feels more like she's dumping all her emotional baggage on me, and I am finding that I myself am not always in the mental headspace to be listening to all of that. I want to be there for her, but not when it is so emotionally exhausting. What should I do?
  • Anonymous asked:
    How should I support someone that is struggling with their mental health? I don’t know how to help them without feeling like I’m pressuring them or stressing them out
    • Free Your Mind replied:
      A: Supporting someone with mental health challenges can be difficult because often we don’t necessarily see or understand how much someone is struggling or what they are struggling with. A good starting point is making an effort to understand. Rather than trying to “fix” the situation and telling them what they should do, you could ask questions like:” is there something I can do to help you?” “I want to understand what you’re feeling or thinking so if you want to talk about it, I’m here for you.” You can also just offer your company, for example: “I have some time this evening if you just want to hang out and go for a walk or something. We don’t have to talk about anything if you don’t want to.” You can also encourage healthier habits like inviting friends to do a workout, or cooking them a healthy meal, or exploring habits like meditation/mindfulness together.

      If you’re seeing signs and symptoms that this person is really struggling (e.g. missing school or work, changes in eating/sleeping, withdrawal from friends and activities, extreme mood changes of highs and lows, inability to concentrate or think clearly, talk about self-harm or suicide, talk about having unsettling thoughts, using drugs or drinking to cope), then you may want to suggest that maybe getting some help might be beneficial for them. You can offer to help book an initial appointment with a therapist or doctor to support them in this process. You might need to set a boundary by saying something like: “I really want to support you, but I’m not trained in how to deal with what you’re facing, and maybe I can support you to find someone you feel comfortable talking to.” If you are worried that they are going to harm themselves or someone else, you will want to try and encourage them to go to the hospital to get some support and in some cases, you may need to call emergency services to keep them safe.

      If you’re feeling overwhelmed or unsure of how to support someone with a mental illness, you may want to consider talking to someone you trust as well. Get some support to take care of yourself. A mental health professional would be able to help you to understand how to set boundaries and how to communicate clearly with someone who is struggling with mental illness or addiction.
  • Anonymous asked:
    I always try to help out my family, but sometimes everything gets too much and I get overwhelmed doing everything for everyone. After this I reach a point where I just become so overwhelmed and I freeze and become so lazy where I will just neglect all my responsibilities. How can I prevent this from happening?
    • Free Your Mind replied:
      A: What is probably happening here is that when we give too much and our bodies get overwhelmed, that is when our nervous system becomes activated – and we have a fight/flight/freeze response. When our nervous system gets activated, we may experience anxiety, feeling sick to the stomach, depression, feeling shutdown or turned off, or we may get really tired and feel frozen. These are only a few experiences, and there may be other symptoms that occur.

      Learning to listen to our own bodies needs and being able to set boundaries is the best way to prevent this from happening.

      Boundaries are really hard, but with practice they get easier. You may want to ask yourself, in what ways do I feel I can help my family today? Or what do I want to get done today? When you know how much you feel you are able to help, then setting a boundary might sound like: “I have some things I need to get done today for myself, but I am able to help you for an hour” or “ I’m feeling really tired today and could use some help. Are you able to help me pick up the toys/laundry/do this dishes, etc.” You may want to negotiate roles within the family, for example: my plan is to clean all of the bathrooms today in the house, are you able to vacuum and clean the kitchen, and then maybe both of us can fold the laundry when its done.” These are just a couple examples of how you might communicate your boundaries to prevent yourself from getting overwhelmed and burnt out.
  • Anonymous asked:
    Why do I get anxiety, does that make me weird My mind goes to places I don’t want them to go and it thinks bad things.
    • Free Your Mind replied:
      A: Anxiety can be caused by stressful life events, trauma, genetics, environmental factors, diet, medication, and health issues. Anxiety may be triggered by a big event that happened in your life, or a build up of many stressful life events over time. Anxiety is normal and common life experience. Many people suffer from anxiety and when your brain is feeling anxious, it is quite common for your mind to think bad things or scary things when it is in an anxious state.

      I would encourage you to consider talking to someone to understand your own experiences of anxiety better and what triggers you have. When you understand what is going on for you personally, you can learn ways to better manage your thinking when your mind goes to places you do not want it to go.

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